Children who lose a close person to suicide or homicide will most likely receive this news from a carer. The caregiver's personal beliefs and approaches to addressing the topic will influence the child. A total of 10 interviews were conducted with carers of children aged 0-17 years, and the data were analyzed using reflexive thematic analysis. Four themes were developed, exploring: (1) how carers attempted to manage the task of delivering the news of death to the child and discussing it using careful wording
(2) how some carers' desire to protect the child from the truth hindered honesty and open conversations
(3) how and why some carers deliberately challenged societal taboos
and (4) how external influences prompted conversations about the topic. The discussion projects potential consequences for the children and their families. It also derives necessary societal changes, support measures, and further research suggestions.