To towards the gender specific policies for remote areas and ethnic minorities, the study on the status of gender relations in ethnic minority families are considered urgent. In the matriarchal society and patriarchy, in gender relations, women of ethnic minorities are disadvantaged than men in almost all respects. This article reviewed the gender relations in families San Chi, which proposed a number of recommendations to resolve gender relations in the San Chi family and empowerment of women San Chi. The data in this article are processed by SPSS statistical software version 11.5, based on fieldwork with the San Chi in Khuoi Be and Na Lay commune, Pac Nam district, Bac Kan province.