The crisis of metabolic and mental disorders continues to escalate worldwide. A growing body of research highlights the influence of tryptophan and its metabolites, such as serotonin, beyond their traditional roles in neural signaling. Serotonin acts as a key neurotransmitter within the brain-gut-microbiome axis, a critical bidirectional communication network affecting both metabolism and behavior. Emerging evidence suggests that the gut microbiome regulates brain function and behavior, particularly through microbial influences on tryptophan metabolism and the serotonergic system, both of which are essential for normal functioning. Additionally, sex differences exist in multiple aspects of serotonin-mediated modulation within the brain-gut-microbiome axis, affecting feeding and affective behaviors. This review summarizes the current knowledge from human and animal studies on the influence of tryptophan and its metabolite serotonin on metabolic and behavioral regulation involving the brain and gut microbiome, with a focus on sex differences and the role of sex hormones. We speculate that gut-derived tryptophan and serotonin play essential roles in the pathophysiology that modifies neural circuits, potentially contributing to eating and affective disorders. We propose the gut microbiome as an appealing therapeutic target for metabolic and affective disorders, emphasizing the importance of understanding sex differences in metabolic and behavioral regulation influenced by the brain-gut-microbiome axis. The therapeutic targeting of the gut microbiota and its metabolites may offer a viable strategy for treating serotonin-related disorders, such as eating and affective disorders, with potential differences in treatment efficacy between men and women. This review would promote research on sex differences in metabolic and behavioral regulation impacted by the brain-gut-microbiome axis.